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Sabrina Bonini's avatar

I LOVE that you mentioned Elle Cordova. This woman brings so much joy to my day every time I see one of her videos 😍 Also loved her thought experiment.

I'm definitely on the Savor, Play and Pay Attention side of life 🙂

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Val Spiers's avatar

More and more I see my life as a series of decision crossroads. I very intentionally make a decision. So in a way I have some control over the journey but not the final destination. I have a destination in mind and create a path to it with the decisions I make. I intentionally try to increase the likelihood of reaching my destination by making deliberate decisions. The fact that life is finite makes decision making exciting. I realised this after reading the book 4000 Weeks. I used to dither about choosing and try to fit more in. Now I am getting better at letting things go so I can get more enjoyment out of the one thing I choose. So my present view of life is to make a choice and not regret it. That doesn’t mean I can’t change my mind. It means I always move forward with a new choice if required. I guess I have embraced the idea that mistakes are opportunities to learn and a risky decision is better than leaving your life to chance. It sounds all very cliche but that is where my head is now.

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